How Tolerating What You Don't Want Changes Your Vibration
Compromise is part of every relationship, and it can seem like the best idea when you are faced with a situation you don't want.
So many times we find ourselves making excuses for behavior that we normally wouldn't allow.
Lies, cheating, disrespect, financial abuse, all excused by the fear of being alone. We tell ourselves we can weather this, that it's worth it in the long run. We give ourselves permission to forgive the unforgivable, just to hold on to a man who disrespected us in the first place.
They difference between forgiving and tolerating what you don't want, is the way it feels.
Forgiveness feels good. It's a relief. It feels like a deep cleansing breath and releasing something that caused you pain.
Tolerating feels suffocating. It feels lie holding your pain inside and letting it continue to cut you up.
Tolerating what hurts you actually lowers your vibration, and attractsmore of what you don't want. That's why it's so important to learn to speak your feelings and learn to say what you don't want.
In my private coaching, I teach women to speak their feelings in a way that really resonates with a man, and bring him closer. Learning how to say what you want and what you don't want will change your vibration and start bringing quality men into your life fast.